Monday, November 9, 2009

Giving advice to my problems

This person that she turns to be my hero she’s 25 years old she’s very pretty has brown eyes and her name is Marilyn. She was at my house sitting down in the couch watching TV when she sees me there sitting down with my face all sad. I had told her that I was having problems. I ask her when I talk to you about my problems how do you feel knowing that you’re helping me on them? She said, “I feel good knowing that I can help other people. I especially like helping my sister-in-law because it makes me feel like I am helping a young sister that I never had.” As Marilyn was talking to me I felt kind of special because she had told me that besides just being a sister-in-law I was like a sister to her, I was happy with a smile on my face.

As we were talking I was thinking in my head how does she feel when I’m telling her my problems? I had asked her that and she told me that she, “Feels good because it makes me know that you trust me and that you know you can always count on me.” I was impress you have told me that I never herd that from none of my sisters-in-law.

After a while we stop talking and we were just there watching a movie and through the movie I ask her do you like helping me by giving me advice and helping me on my big problems? “Of course I like helping you. I can relate to most of your problems because I went through the same problem as a teenager”, said Marilyn
Once she had told me if she likes helping me I had ask her how you do know how to fix my problems? She was thinking about it. Marilyn said, “well I don’t feel like I always know the answer to everything but I try to learn from my life experience and I try to give you good advice so that you don’t make the same mistakes I made”, I told her yeah I know. So that’s why I’m going to do good in school.

I was really into asking her a lot of questions about my problem I really wanted to ask her this question because it was one of the most important one. I really want to know if you like helping me on my problems? As Marilyn answer my question, saying that “I like helping you because I don’t want to see you get hurt and I like to see you succeed. I was like really happy that I had a sister-in-law like her she has helped me realize that I do care for her.

Every time we have a conversation about someone I’m always telling her my problems. I told her to tell me when she feels she helps me that most she told me “The time I help you the most when you had boyfriend and homework problems. I feel that I have helped you a lot with school and homework. Ever since you were in kinder grade you always ask for help. I have also seen grow from a little girl to a beautiful teenager and have seen you get heart broken more than once. I know every time this happens it always make you feel better when you talk to someone about you problem I’m glad that person is me,” said Marilyn. Did you feel sorry for me when you have helped me on my problems? “I feel bad and sad when you have really bad problems. But most. of the time I feel proud of you because I know that no matter how hard the problem is you always find a way to solve it and make it all better”, she said. I was really proud she shows me that she dose care about me and that no matter what, she’s always going to be there for me.

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